Energetic Liminality: The Psychology of the In-Between Self. Identity Crisis.
- Elmira Arthur
- Aug 20
- 3 min read
Updated: 6 days ago

There is a stage in human transformation that no mindset hack, no affirmation, and no spiritual bypass can make comfortable.
It is the raw space where your old identity begins to fracture—not as an idea, but as a lived reality. You are no longer who you were, yet you are not who you are becoming.
This is energetic liminality: the unsettling “in-between self” where the walls of your inner architecture collapse, and nothing familiar remains.
The Collapse of Identity and Its False Comforts
In psychology, this experience is often misnamed as confusion or resistance. But what actually dissolves in this space is structure.
The resentment that once braced you, the guilt that kept you small, the fear that sharpened your edges—these inner frameworks lose their function.
The psyche does not immediately celebrate freedom. It panics. It scrambles to resurrect the old identity, even when it was painful, because familiarity feels safer than emptiness.
This is why so many return to toxic relationships, sabotage growth, or cling to outdated roles. Not from addiction to suffering—but from addiction to structure.
Identity Crisis as Spatial Experience
An identity crisis is not just a conceptual shift in beliefs. It is a spatial experience.
Your self-concept builds invisible walls and corridors: guilt lowers your ceilings, resentment braces you for battles long past, and fear hardens your edges.
When these dissolve, you are not simply “lost.” You are standing in the void of your own dismantled architecture. That is energetic liminality—the hollow but fertile ground where the next self must be constructed.
The Psychology of the In-Between Self
Traditional therapeutic methods often falter here. They focus on emotions and thoughts as contents to be managed. But in liminality, the struggle is not about content—it is about space.
The subconscious does not know how to inhabit a formless state. It grasps for premature identities, external validations, or recycled frameworks. This is how transformation cycles loop—rewriting the same story in new fonts without structural change.
Why Liminality Cannot Be Rushed
The in-between self confronts us with what the psyche resists most: ambiguity.
This phase requires patience, presence, and the courage to stand in the absence of identity. The rebuilding of the self cannot be forced onto timelines or held together with affirmations. The new architecture must emerge organically, dimensionally, and spatially.
Regression–Progressive Therapy: Rebuilding the Inner Blueprint
In regression–progressive therapy, energetic liminality is not bypassed but honored as sacred terrain.
This work involves:
Identifying subconscious narratives that distort inner space
Disentangling emotions from structural imprints
Rebuilding coherence so the psyche, body, and energy field align
This is not surface-level mindset work. It is foundational reconstruction of the self’s architecture.
The Invitation of Energetic Liminality
Energetic liminality is not a storm to “survive.” It is the forge where the next version of you is designed.
If you are in this space—where the old no longer fits and the new has not yet arrived—the invitation is simple: do not rush to escape. Allow the void to become the canvas. Stand in the in-between with clarity, and let your next self be built with precision, not inheritance.
A Gentle Step Forward
If these words resonate, it may be because your own soul is asking for space to rebuild. Regression–progressive therapy offers a way to listen deeply, to steady the disorientation, and to begin shaping an identity rooted not in old patterns, but in your truest self.
I invite you to book a complimentary call with me. In this conversation, we’ll explore what your subconscious is showing you now, where you may feel suspended, and how we can begin restoring coherence so that your next self has room to arrive.
This is not about rushing to become someone new. It is about allowing your becoming to take form in its own time—layer by layer, room by room—until you are at home in your own spaciousness again.